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    Author: Mohajer Azizi
    Lovemaking and Illicit Relationships
    The word “love” is one of the most widely used words in everyday life and the most well-known phenomena among some social groups, especially the youth. This word has become very famous; as it has always been on everyone’s lips and is mostly exchanged among the youth; but unfortunately, many only consider its figurative aspect and very few people have realized its real side and put it into practice. True love means loving and affection for Allah and the Prophet and what the Sharia has made loving and affection for it, taking into account moderation, correct and permissible; As Rumi has beautifully said:
    عشق هائى كز پى رنگى بود/عشق نبود عاقبت ننگى بود
    زانكه عشق مردگان پاینده نیست/چون كه مرده سوى ما آینده نیست
    عشق زنده در روان و در بصر/هر دو مى باشد زغنچه تازه تر
    عشق آن زنده گزین كو باقى است/وز شراب جانفزایت ساقى است
    عشق آن بگزین كه جمله انبیا/یافتند از عشق او كار و كیا
    Translation:
    “Loves that follow colors /It is not love and its end is shameful”
    “Know that the love of the dead is not permanent/ Because the dead has no future in our sight”
    “Alive love is in the soul and in the eyes/ Both are fresher than the bud”
    “Choose the Love of the alive (Allah) that He is the one who remains/ His life-giving wine is a healer”
    “Choose the love of one that the prophets/ Found from his love honor and reign”
    [Masnawi Ma’navi]
    Communication and love with the opposite sex is explicitly prohibited in the Quran, and Muslims have been warned against this; as the Lord of the worlds has explicitly warned women and men in two places in the Quran, namely, one in Surah Al-Ma’idah verse 5 and the other in Surah Al-Nisa verse 25, against having friendly relations with the opposite sex and has condemned it. Verse 25 of Surah Al-Nisa tells men not to marry girls who have had secret relationships with others…
    «فانکحوهن باذن اهلهن و آتوهن اجورهن بالمعروف محصنات غیر مسافحات و لا متخذات اخدان» Meaning: “Marry them with the permission of their families and give them their dowries in a manner acceptable to them, [provided] that they are chaste and not adulterers or secret lovers.” In verse 5 of Surah Al-Ma’idah, it also addresses men and says: “Marry chaste Muslim women and be chaste and not adulterers or secret lovers.” «… ولا متخذی اخدان …»
    In fact, falling in love with “foreign women and girls” is a deadly disease, a disease that spreads to the outside and inside of a person and completely binds the human mind and intellect with the chains of sedition; then the person becomes completely misguided and foolish, and this disease should not be allowed to develop or strengthen, otherwise it will create many other diseases in the human being; such as: mental and nervous diseases, heart disease, weakness and thinness, etc.;
    As Shaikh al-Islam (may Allah bless him) says: “Love is a type of mental illness that, when it becomes strong and intense, affects the body, and itself becomes a disease in the body: either it causes mental and nervous diseases, as they say that it is a disease of obsession, or it causes physical diseases such as weakness, thinness, etc. . .”
    Love for the opposite sex is itself a type of torment, a torment that always torments a person and becomes a source of constant regret for him; as Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah bless him) says: “Love is a type of torment, and a wise person does not buy torment for himself.” [Rawzat al-Mohebin wa Nazhat al-Moshtaqin: 1/143]
    Those who initially fall in love with a stranger of the opposite sex may find it easy and enjoyable; but the end will be very difficult and will ultimately be followed by great disgrace. It is certain that whatever sin is, it is first adorned for a person by the ego and the devil, and the heedless person does it without realizing it and comes to his senses, and commits it with intoxication and pleasure. However, one day he will see every ugly result and consequence of it with his own eyes and head, and he will be about to be destroyed. If he repents and comes to his senses, it is good, but otherwise there is no doubt about its destruction; as Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah bless him) said: “The first steps in the valley of love are easy and sweet, the middle of its path is full of sadness and turmoil of the heart and worry, but its end, if Allah’s mercy does not cover the person, is destruction and death.” [Al-Da’a wa Al-Dawa: 498] How beautifully the Arab poet has written about the poor and wandering lover:
    فما فی الارض اشقی من محب/ وان وجد الهوی حبــو المذاق
    تـــراه باکیا فـی کـل حـــال /مخــافة فـــرقة او لاشـتیـاق
    فیبـکی ان نـاوا شوقا الـیهم/ویبکــی ان دنــوا حذر الفراق
    فتسخن عینه عند التـــلاقی/ وتسخــن عینـه عــندالفــراق
    Translation: “There is no one more miserable on earth than a lover, although he thinks that following his own desires is sweet; but in any case you will find him weeping! Because he is constantly in fear due to the longing to meet his lover or to be separated from him. Whenever the beloved turns away from him, he weeps with the intensity of longing, and whenever the lover is by his side, he wails and worries due to the fear of separation. When his eyes meet, his eyes become warm with tears, and when he is separated, his eyes again weep.”
    Undoubtedly, human nature tends towards the opposite sex (women and girls), and Satan always adorns men with women, and women with men; but you should not respond to every word and desire of the ego and the devil and accept it; do you worship the ego and the devil!
    Some may say that our love is free from meeting and visiting and free from gendered views; But it should be known that this method is not free from the circles of Satan. Satan gradually leads man to deviation and misguidance with preliminary matters; just as we are forbidden from committing sin, we are also warned of its preliminary matters. Allah Almighty has said: “لا تَتَّبِعُوا خُطُواتِ الشَّیْطانِ إِنَّهُ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ مُبینٌ” Translation: “Do not follow the footsteps of Satan, for he is to you a clear enemy; [Al-Baqarah: 168].
    You see and think, even though Prophet Joseph (peace be upon him) was a prophet and infallible, he did not consider himself safe from the “Amarah ego.” So how can we consider ourselves safe from the Amarah ego and Satan, even though we are not infallible and are immersed in the mire of sin? For example: A person who is dressed in oil from head to toe does not feel that his clothes are dirty from sitting on the ground. The example of a human being is also the same in this case. All human beings are created with lust and inclination. It is impossible for this extinguished fire not to flare up and mix with the earth like oil when they have contact with the opposite sex. As the Holy Quran reminds us of what Prophet Joseph (peace be upon him) said: “وَ ما أُبَرِّئُ نَفْسی‏ إِنَّ النَّفْسَ لَأَمَّارَةٌ بِالسُّوءِ إِلاَّ ما رَحِمَ رَبِّی إِنَّ رَبِّی غَفُورٌ رَحیمٌ” Translation: “And I will never acquit myself. Indeed, the ego commands evil except for what my Lord has mercy on. Indeed, my Lord is Forgiving, Merciful; [Yusuf: 53]. According to the scholars, it is clear from the story of Prophet Joseph (peace be upon him) that when a person loves and cherishes Allah and has true and complete sincerity, he will never be tested and tempted by imaginary loves, and loves other than Allah; just as Prophet Joseph (peace be upon him) loved and cherished Allah, he was not affected by this temptation. Therefore, in order to save himself from this pervasive temptation, people should adopt the example of Prophet Joseph (peace be upon him), love and cherish Allah, act sincerely in the commandments and teachings of religion, never trust in the ego and Satan, and always be careful of them so that they do not fall into the trap of the sworn enemies of humans.
    The Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has called women a temptation for men in many narrations, as he said: «ما ترکت بعدی فتنة أضر على الرجال من النساء.» Translation: “I have not left after me a temptation more harmful to men than women.” [Bukhari: 4808]. The word “fitnah” should not be misunderstood, as some people interpret fitnah as a calamity, which is wrong; rather, the true meaning of “fitnah” is a cause of testing, meaning the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has called women a means of testing and a cause of dangerous trials for men. Therefore, it is advisable for men to be sensitive about this, and not to make the heart, which is the house of love for Allah, a house of carnal and satanic desires.
    We understand from the above explanations, that lovemaking and illicit relations with the opposite sex are a great sin and are considered “adultery” and in verses and hadiths, humans have been explicitly warned against it; therefore, if Muslims want to avoid falling into the trap of Satan and the ego, and live a peaceful and comfortable life in accordance with the Sharia, please say “no” to this unfamiliar and unpleasant phenomenon of “lovemaking” and save yourself from this quagmire and storm of destruction and perpetual downfall.
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