The Disadvantages of Women Leaving the Home to Work Outside
The first disadvantage is that there may be a lack of compassion and kindness towards children. There is no doubt that the correct education of children is based on love, affection, and supervision. In the absence of these factors, the critical aspect of education may not be carried out effectively. Even if children are sent to kindergartens or educational centers, and even if the teachers and staff at those centers do their best, such a child may not thrive as they should. A teacher can never fully replace a child’s real mother and does not possess a mother’s innate nurturing qualities. While a mother patiently responds to her child’s needs and is deeply invested in her child’s upbringing and development, a teacher may not have the same emotional connection or characteristics.
And can a mother who has been busy working outside the house all day think about raising children and caressing them? And are these losses to the family compensated by the small salary that the woman received?!
– It is clear that a woman who leaves the house for work mixes with non-mahram men and talks with them, while this is forbidden and affects her morals and tarnishes her image.
Is the salary that a woman earns for working outside the home worth being guilty and infamous? And can that small salary compensate for this great price?
– It is possible that a woman occupies the job position of men by working outside the home, and because of her, men and young breadwinners remain without jobs, and on the other hand, she has left the home, which was the main place of her activities, empty, and in her absence, the management of household affairs They remain undecided and become disturbed.
A woman who works outside the home loses her feminine qualities and her children are deprived of maternal love and compassion.
– A woman who leaves the house to work gets used to going out, even if she has no work, she leaves the house without any necessity or need, and in this way, the foundation of the family gradually falls apart and the friendship between its members is reduced. and the cooperation between its members decreases; As we see and witness in the western region, the warm heart of families is about to fall apart.
– A woman’s nature is such that she is very interested in jewelry and ornaments; As Almighty God says in relation to this issue:
«أَوَمَن يُنَشَّأُ فِي الْحِلْيَةِ وَهُوَ فِي الْخِصَامِ غَيْرُ مُبِينٍ» “Is he who is brought up in ornaments and does not appear in wars?” Therefore, when a woman leaves the house to work, she spends a large amount of her capital and savings on clothes, jewelry, and hair dye, and a lot of property is consumed in this direction.
When a person looks at the female employees when they go to work and when they come back from work, they realize that it becomes clear to everyone and that these things do not lead to the progress of the society, nor to the development of the society. They help social economy.
Scientists believe that a woman has less work than a man and has fewer dreams and does not look for new achievements much, and besides this, she has problems such as menstruation and must bear the hardships of carrying a child and think about her children and her own feminine needs. that all these issues prevent her from being equal with men and prevent her progress; Now, if women are found against this rule, their number is very small, and this rule will not be violated with them.
If we want to honestly and without prejudice compare the functions, achievements and consequences of women’s activities outside the home and between the above-mentioned cases, is its benefit more than the benefit of women staying at home? While feminisms do not consider women staying and working at home as work at all.
A Muslim person knows very well and believes that Allah Almighty has created the servants to worship and obey Him, and it is the duty of a Muslim to follow the path and method of His religion and Sharia, and God Himself has guaranteed that He will provide sustenance to whomever He wills. There is no need for man to be disturbed As Almighty Allah says:
«وَمَا كَانَ لِمُؤْمِنٍ وَلاَ مُؤْمِنَةٍ إِذَا قَضَى اللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَمْرًا أَن يَكُونَ لَهُمُ الْخِيَرَةُ مِنْ أَمْرِهِمْ»
“Since Allah and his Prophet “PBUH” decide something, it is not (permissible) for any believing man or any believing woman to have discretion in their affairs.”
Professor Abbas Mahmoud Akkad says: “A society where men and women work together in the same factory and market, such a society can never be a healthy society and cannot bring satisfaction and peace to the boys and girls of that society.” Because in such a society, its efforts will go to waste and the business system will be disrupted in it, and the family and home systems will also collide in it.
The policies of a system and government, with all its ramifications, are not more important and dangerous than the policies of the house; Because these two are like two mutual worlds, one is the world of war and jihad and the other is the world of peace and tranquility, and existing people are managed in one generation and the future generation is managed in the other; Therefore, both of these fields are important.
When a woman’s main field of work and area is the house with all those people and those things that are in it; So, if this woman leaves the house and goes outside the house to work, then two problems will arise: firstly, the real field of the woman, which is housekeeping and taking care of the household affairs, will be disturbed; Second, she has stepped into a field that she was not created for, and that is enough for a woman who educates the next generation.
A woman who lives in an Islamic complex, while that complex has a government and Sharia law and implements the divine method, it is necessary for such a woman to understand well that a child in the first years of its life needs an expert mother that nothing can It prevents from the important matter of taking care of the child and raising the new generation.
Anything that is done against the management of housework and taking care of children, its smoke goes into the eyes of these children and the future generation of mankind.
If the woman was forced to work outside the home, there is no question; But if there is no need to work outside the home, then women’s work outside the home environment is a folly committed by the new ignorance in the name of progress and science of civilization in the 21st century.
All the needs that the new ignorance creates in the way of forcing the woman out of the house, or the licenses it gives her to be able to pull her out of the house, all these are only because of a woman who is a mother specialist, an employee. or make a worker to spend all his energy for a job outside the home; While these are not original and are programs that the devil has arranged to make it clear that there is no other choice but to be busy with women.
When we talk about women’s work and vitality in this modern ignorance, the mind immediately goes to women’s activities outside the home.
In the societies of modern ignorance, which has occupied most countries, men and women work equally, whose motivation is not to satisfy their economic needs or the society in which they live. It may be said as a reason that because a man works, a woman also wants to work like him; Therefore, feminists or the new ignorance always suggest to women that they should be like men in all their actions and activities, and they gradually progressed to the point where they built schools for women and taught women the techniques and skills that were the specialty of men and were reserved for men.
Again, if we pay close attention, we will notice that in America, most of the job opportunities given to women is the job of “secretary”, now it doesn’t matter if the “secretary” is general or special, and if we look at Russia, we will see that most of the jobs that It is left to the woman, there are manual works that she has to do in the factory, or she is the office cleaner, or they serve passengers and move their bags or belongings at train stations or airports.
The whole concern of feminists is that they make women pregnant in non-feminine ways, and women should not perform their duties as wives, mothers, and homemakers, and housekeeping should not be her favorite job, and they want a woman to be able to handle all of these things. Look at the humiliation and if one day she is forced to do these things, it is necessary for her to look at them as a second job and not care about them.
The so-called civilized women who have been deceived by the tricks of the feminists’ games, as soon as they finish their studies, the first thing that is important to them and they deal with it is a job and work, and usually this job and work opportunity is in the middle of men and non-mahram people; But this same woman does not consider being a mother and being a wife important to her and does not intend to do it, and it is not valued in the society.
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